Welcome to WTF Blog (What The Frequency)—a space for deep insights, real experiences, and the unseen forces that shape our lives. Here, we explore the mysteries of energy, intuition, past lives and more—not as abstract concepts, but as tangible, powerful forces that influence your path. Whether you're here to decode patterns, expand your awareness, or just find a different perspective, you’re in the right place. Let’s explore what’s really going on beneath the surface.
 That Person You Can’t Stop Thinking About? You’ve Known Them Before.
You didn’t stumble into each other’s lives by chance. That spark of recognition you felt the first time you locked eyes? The magnetic pull you can’t shake — even if you’ve tried? That’s not random. That’s memory. Your soul has been here before. You’ve loved them. Lost them. Fought beside them. Betrayed them. Held them in your arms as they took their last breath. And here you are, meeting them… again. The Truth About Past Life Connections Every lifetime, your soul writes its own contracts. Some are for love. Some are for growth. Some are to finish the business you couldn’t (or wouldn’t) face before. When a person from your past life appears, you feel it before you know it. It’s not subtle — it’s a deep, cellular remembering. You feel like you’ve known them forever — even if you just met. Conversations feel like they’ve been going on for lifetimes. There’s an intensity you can’t explain — it’s either intoxicating or deeply triggering. You know things about them you couldn’t possibly know. And here’s the dangerous part: If you ignore that pull, you may miss the exact reason you met again. And when that happens… the lesson will circle back in another form, sometimes harder. Why They’re Here Now Past life connections don’t appear just to make you wonder. They’re here for a reason. Maybe they’re here to:
Past Life Exploration Sessions are not to indulge a curiosity, but hand you the blueprint your soul is working from in this lifetime. The answers are there… waiting for you to explore. What Past Life Carryover Looks Like Past life threads can show up as:
The Window Doesn’t Stay Open Forever When a soul connection crosses your path, the energy is at its peak in those early stages. The universe is practically screaming, “Pay attention!” If you don’t act on it, the opportunity can fade. Not because the bond disappears… but because life piles on noise until you stop hearing the message. And here’s the thing: the people you’ve met before? They’re not always here to stay forever. Sometimes they’re here to pivot you toward the next version of yourself… and then they’re gone. The only way to know which is which — and what you’re meant to do with it — is to look behind the curtain. You’ve crossed paths for a reason. The question is… Will you uncover it before the moment passes? Have You Ever Met Someone And Felt As If You’ve Known Them Before? Share your story with me — the strange, the beautiful, the unexplainable - I want to hear all about it. With love and insight, ~ Merry
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 You never really know how much someone’s endured— until you try to love them.
Not flirt with them. Not spiritually bypass their pain with pretty words. But love them. Stand in the rawness with them. See them, fully. And stay. I’ve watched it happen more than once. Every single time, it feels like witnessing a miracle that almost doesn’t want to be seen. You reach for them… and something in them recoils. Not because they don’t crave love. But because they’ve learned that love is a trick mirror—something that appears warm, only to shatter when they finally exhale into it. You’ll feel it before they ever say a word. In the way they dismiss compliments. In the way their body stiffens at softness. In the way their eyes shift when you say, “I’m not going anywhere.” They don’t know how to believe that yet. And honestly, I don’t blame them. I’ve sat with the ache of those moments. When someone I loved pushed me away with all the strength of a person trying to protect a wound that never stopped bleeding. And all I could do was stay. Not fix. Not fight. Just stay. It’s humbling to love someone who doesn’t know what to do with love. To stand in their pain without trying to wrap it in silver linings. To choose presence over answers. And then… something shifts. It’s never dramatic. It doesn’t come with fanfare. It’s in the smallest things—their laugh coming back for no reason. The way their shoulders drop just a little when you enter the room. The way they let their hand rest in yours for one second longer than before. And in that moment, I swear— you’re not just witnessing healing. You’re witnessing a miracle. Not in a religious sense but in the way divinity slips through the cracks, quietly rebuilding what the world tried to destroy. I’ve learned that love like this doesn’t come to teach us how to fix others. It comes to show us the depth of our own tenderness. The stretch of our own patience. The power of staying. It’s in that staying that something sacred ignites. They begin to trust—not just you, but the idea that maybe they aren’t too much. That their pain isn’t a burden. That maybe—just maybe—they can be held without feeling broken again. Watching that unfold is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever experienced. They won’t always say thank you. They may never name what you’ve given them. But you’ll see it in how they soften. In how they try. In how they begin to see themselves through your eyes. And maybe that’s the real alchemy of love— when someone who thought they were unworthy starts to believe they’re worth choosing. Every time. Even on their worst days. Even when they’re still learning how to receive. Even when the past comes back and tries to pull them under again. You stay. Not because you’re trying to save them. But because somewhere inside you, something sacred recognised them. And maybe… just maybe… they're the miracle. But so are you. And if you've been walking this path—loving someone who's healing, or trying to heal yourself while being loved—you're not alone. Sometimes it takes another set of eyes to show you what your soul has been whispering all along. Let’s uncover what your heart has been trying to remember. Because real love--the kind that stays, the kind that sees, the kind that doesn’t flinch—is rare. And when it finds you, you’ll know. ~ Merry P. S. I write about the Law of Attraction amoung other things. If this article helped you, send me a message. If compelled, please share it. Your energy helps others find the clarity they need too.  You wake up at 3 AM again.
Your mind is racing. Bills. Debt. That conversation with your boss. The bank account balance that makes your stomach drop. Sound familiar? Here's what you don't know: you're accidentally programming yourself for poverty. The Sacred Hour You're Wasting 3 AM isn't random. It's when your subconscious mind is wide open. No filters. No logic. Just pure absorption. Your conscious mind is asleep, but your inner computer is running updates. And you're feeding it fear. Every worry. Every "what if." Every mental replay of financial stress. Your subconscious doesn't question it. It just accepts: "Oh, this is what we want more of." The Universe's Programming Window Between 2 AM and 4 AM, the veil is thinnest. Your subconscious is in download mode. Think of it as having admin access to your own operating system. Most people use this time to install malware. Scarcity thoughts. Lack programming. Fear-based beliefs. No wonder your manifestations aren't working. What's Really Happening Your subconscious can't tell the difference between real and imagined. It records everything as fact. Thirty minutes of 3 AM worry? That's 182 hours of poverty programming per year. The universe is listening. Always. But it's especially tuned in when the world is quiet. The Fix: Reprogram Tonight Next time you wake up at 3 AM, do this: Stop fighting it. The universe woke you up for a reason. Breathe. Three deep breaths. Acknowledge the sacred moment. Gratitude first. Before any other thought takes root, name three financial blessings. Even if it's just having a bed to sleep in. Plant new seeds. Whisper into the darkness: "Money flows to me easily." "I am worthy of abundance." "The universe is bringing me wealth." Feel it. See yourself living abundantly. Feel the relief of paid bills. The joy of financial freedom. Your subconscious thinks it's happening now. It will make it your reality. The Shift When you flip the script, everything changes. Your relationship with money transforms. Opportunities appear. Synchronicities multiply. The universe has been trying to give you abundance all along. Your 3 AM programming was blocking the flow. Sometimes what feels like a problem is actually an invitation. Those sleepless nights aren't punishments. They're opportunities to reprogram your reality. If you're ready to understand how the universe communicates with you and clear the blocks keeping abundance away, book an Intuitive Intelligence consultation with me. Let's tap into the guidance that's already around you. The universe is always working in your favour. Even at 3 AM. Especially at 3 AM. Journal Prompt: The next time you wake up in the middle of the night, ask yourself: "What is the universe trying to tell me right now?" Write down whatever comes to mind, no matter how random it seems. Your breakthrough insights often come when you're finally listening. With love and gratitude, ~Merry  “Trust the Universe” sounds cute on a sticker. But let’s be honest — the real version?
It’s messier. Louder. Scarier. And way more transformative. Everyone romanticises it like it’s sipping tea on a meditation cushion under a string of fairy lights. But let’s talk about what it really looks like. It looks like quitting the job with no backup plan while your hands shake. Sitting in the void with a cracked-open heart and a pit in your stomach. Choosing stillness when every part of you wants to run. You’ve been taught that trust feels like floating. But here’s the truth: Real trust feels like free fall. Not the soft, spiritual high of “surrender and you’ll receive.” No — this is the kind of trust that strips you. It humbles you. It asks you to keep walking blindfolded through the fog and still believe the road is unfolding in your favour. Trust Isn’t Clean. It’s Chaos That Clarifies. The moment you say “I trust you, Universe,” things rarely fall into place right away. More often, they fall apart. Not because you’re being punished. But because what you’re holding isn’t aligned with where you’re going. Opportunities vanish. People ghost. Timelines dissolve. And you’re left wondering if this whole “trust and surrender” thing was just spiritual fluff. But here’s the rub: Trust doesn’t mean you get what you want. It means you become who you’re meant to be. What Trust Really Looks Like:
It’s not glamorous. It’s not Instagrammable. It’s faith in the fire. Silence Doesn’t Mean Abandonment You think your spirit guides ghosted you? That the Universe stopped talking? No, love. Silence is part of the initiation. It’s the space where your ego dissolves and your intuition gets louder. It’s where you learn to stop chasing signs and start trusting your own resonance. Sometimes the answers don’t come until after you move. That’s not a glitch. That’s how the code is written. Trust Humbles You — On Purpose Real trust strips away your illusions of control. You will release identities you clung to. Comforts that sedated you. People who never truly saw you. And in that shedding, you’ll meet the you who’s been waiting underneath it all. Not the curated version. The real one. The one who leads. Who listens. Who no longer begs life to prove their worth. The Right Path Isn’t Always the Easy One We want the clear road. The smooth ride. But the most aligned path? It might ask you to:
The Moment You Know You’re Trusting It’s not when the thing arrives. It’s not when it finally makes sense. It’s when you stop needing the outcome at all. When you stop begging the Universe to fix it and start meeting life exactly as it is. That’s when the shift begins. When your nervous system unclenches. When your heart cracks open. When your power comes back online. That’s real trust. So, What Do You Do Now? You stop overthinking and start embodying. Here’s your practice:
Trust isn’t a feeling. It’s a frequency. You tune into it choice by choice, breath by breath. And over time, it transforms your entire field. You stop chasing. You start attracting. You stop begging. You start magnetising. Because your soul didn’t come here to control. It came to co-create. So let go. The Universe isn’t testing you. It’s responding to the real you — the one who’s brave enough to surrender. Ready to tune into your intuition, make aligned decisions, and finally stop second-guessing yourself? Book an Intuitive Intelligence Consultation and let’s decode what your energy already knows. Because you don’t need another sign. You are the signal.  Sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is the one that feels the hardest: stepping back.
Not out of bitterness. Not to manipulate. But from self-respect. As empaths, healers, and deeply attuned beings, we often give our presence freely. We show up. We pour in. We hold space. But when that energy is unreciprocated or unappreciated, it starts to chip away at our spirit. So let them miss you. Not as a strategy to make someone chase you — but as a soul-led decision to reclaim your frequency. Your presence is a privilege, not a punishment. And when you’re constantly available, your magic becomes background noise. Taken for granted. Expected. But when you pull your energy back with clarity and intention, it creates sacred space. Space for reflection. Space for appreciation. Space for revelation. This isn’t about abandonment. It’s about energetic sovereignty. Let them feel your absence. Let them notice what shifts when your light isn’t in the room. That silence? That stillness? It amplifies the truth. Because you don’t prove your worth by being ever-present. You reveal it by what’s felt when you’re not. If the connection is real, your absence will echo louder than your presence ever could. And if it’s not? Then no amount of staying, proving, or overextending will change a thing. Your value is not up for debate. Pulling back allows you to observe. Do they reach for you? Do they notice the shift? Do they show up, or slowly drift? Their response is your answer. No need to beg. No need to explain. The people who are aligned with your evolution will feel your absence as a call — and they’ll respond. Not because they’ve been trained to, but because they want to. And those who don’t? Let them go. Let them drift so you can lift. You’re not meant to be in everyone’s orbit. You’re not for those who require you to dim, shrink, or constantly explain your worth. Let them miss the love, the presence, the insight, the unwavering support you brought. Let them remember your laugh, your softness, your fire. And while they sit with the space you left behind — fill that space within yourself. Reclaim your own attention. Pour back into your own well. Remember who you are when you’re not trying to be everything for everyone. You are not defined by your role in anyone else’s story. You are the author of your own. So inhale. Reset. Re-align. Honouring yourself in this way is not selfish — it’s sacred. Let them miss you. Let them feel the weight of your absence.Let them decide what it’s worth. And no matter the outcome — stay anchored in your power. Because you are whole, even when you walk away. ~ Merry Ready to reclaim your energy and walk in your power? Book a Spiritual Mastery Consultation and let’s unlock the version of you that doesn’t beg, chase, or doubt. Click HERE to schedule your session.  Let’s get something straight: Your spirit team didn’t ghost you. The Universe didn’t hit mute. Your guides didn’t go on sabbatical.
I know how damaging that seed of doubt can be. It whispers things like: “Maybe I’m not gifted.” “Maybe I’ve outgrown my guidance.” “Maybe they left me behind.” It makes you feel abandoned. Disconnected. Dreadful. No. Stop. They’re still here. Loud. Clear. Communicating 24/7. The question isn’t, “Why did they stop talking?” It’s, “How did I stop tuning in?” Here’s the unfiltered truth:
Why It Feels Like They’re Gone You’re not broken. You’re not disconnected. But you may be off-frequency. Think of spirit communication like a radio station. If you’re tuned one click off, you’ll get static — but the station is still broadcasting. Here’s what can pull you out of range: 1. Frequency Misalignment Fear. Stress. Doom-scrolling. All of it weighs you down. Spirit guides vibrate at higher frequencies. If you're steeped in heaviness, it muffles their messages. 2. Matrix Distractions You get caught up in bills, schedules, deadlines, likes. You forget to sit with yourself. You forget your breath is a portal and your presence is power. You’re not “cut off” — you’re just consumed. 3. Emotional Static If your inner world is a storm, it’s hard to hear a whisper. Guides don’t shout. They nudge. They vibe. Your job isn’t to yell into the void — it’s to soften the noise and listen differently. 4. False Expectations You’re waiting for a neon sign, but your guide whispered it to you through a song lyric yesterday. Or that repeating number you brushed off. Or the chill on your skin you ignored. They are speaking. You just forgot the language. 5. Integration Periods Sometimes the silence is sacred. After a breakthrough, your nervous system needs to catch up. Your guides step back not because they’ve left — but because you’re meant to embody what they’ve already shared. How They’re STILL Speaking (Even If You’re Missing It) Repeating Numbers + Synchronicities If 444 keeps showing up, don’t question it. Receive it. You asked for signs. They delivered. Spirit speaks in patterns — but only the awake recognize the code. Dreams + Meditation Downloads That strange dream? That phrase that echoed in your mind while meditating? They’re breadcrumbs. You’re being led. Write it down. Track the trail. Nature, Animals, and Elements That crow? That gust of wind right when you asked for clarity? That wild synchronicity with a cat (hello, Bastet)? Spirit moves through all of it. Intuitive Nudges That pull to go left instead of right. That feeling to text someone. That “something’s off” hunch. Your guides don’t always talk — they tingle. They urge. They whisper through knowing. Cosmic Downloads I receive downloads of prophetic information and visions — but that’s just my flavour of connection. Yours might be poetic. Artistic. Somatic. The method doesn’t matter. The message always arrives. So How Do You Re-Tune? You don’t force it. You feel it. You stop the noise. You recalibrate. Here’s how: 1. Raise Your Vibe Play music that lifts you. Move your body. Go barefoot in the grass. The higher you vibrate, the clearer the signal becomes. 2. Get Quiet Silence isn’t emptiness. It’s invitation. Spirit lives in the pause between your thoughts. 3. Ask Stop doubting and start dialoguing. Your guides aren’t judging your wording. Speak from the heart. Ask aloud. Journal it out. Expect an answer. 4. Clear the Static Cleanse your field like you’d clean your house before guests arrive. Salt baths. Smoke clearing. EFT. Reiki. Whatever works — just do it. 5. Trust the Subtle Don’t wait for the fireworks. Start honouring the flicker. The more you trust the small signs, the louder they get. Truth Bomb: Guides Don’t Abandon You If it feels like spirit is silent, don’t spiral — realign. You don’t need to earn connection. You are the connection. Your channel didn’t break. It got a little dusty. Wipe it clean. Plug back in. And remember: The Universe doesn’t stop speaking. Your guides didn’t leave you. Your job is to listen with your whole being. And when you do? The cosmic conversation gets LOUD. Now’s the time to come back home to your knowing. They’ve been waiting. Ready to Reconnect, Realign, and Rise? If you're craving deeper clarity, stronger connection with your guides, and a complete energetic recalibration — this is your sign. The Spiritual Mastery Consultation is your personal portal to divine insight, intuitive realignment, and energetic expansion. You’ll walk away with clear guidance, activated gifts, and next steps to embody your spiritual power. We’ll go deep. We’ll get clear. We’ll clear the noise. And we’ll reawaken the version of you who never stopped hearing the call. With Love and Gratitude, ~Merry  Let me take you back five years.
I had a mountain of credit card debt, anxiety in my chest every time I checked my bank account, and a burning desire to stop feeling like I was just surviving. I didn’t need millions. I just wanted to breathe. To not flinch every time a bill came in. So I made a decision: I would act as if. Not fake it. Not force it. But feel it. I wanted to be someone who could pay her bills—and a little extra. Give freely to others—and a little more. Feel supported by money instead of trapped by it. And what I uncovered about myself shocked the hell out of me. 1. I Thought I Wanted Money—But What I Really Wanted Was Freedom Every time I tapped my card or filled out a bill payment, I told myself the same story: “If I just had more money, I’d finally be okay.” But the moment I started acting like someone who already was okay—paying for organic produce without guilt, filling my gas tank all the way up for the first time in years—I realised… It wasn’t the money I craved. It was the freedom I thought it would buy me. I wanted to move through life without fear. To breathe without clenching. To make decisions from my power—not my panic. And get this: My actual financial circumstances didn’t change right away. But I did. I walked differently. I held my head higher. I felt wealthier. And I realised something no one tells you: Freedom is a frequency. And I could calibrate to it—before the numbers ever changed. 2. I Had Been Lying to Myself for Years I had this programmed belief—thank you, Catholic school—that wanting more money or more food than the starving children in India meant I was selfish. Unspiritual. Greedy. I thought having less made me more “good.” More worthy. More holy. But when I started acting as if—truly embodying abundance—I realised how wrong I’d been. Suddenly, I wanted to give more. I wanted to start a YouTube channel to help other women monetise their gifts. I wanted to teach them how to manifest and manage their money. I had visions of creating tools and programs to help others rise. But I couldn’t do any of it… Because I was still holding myself back. Still playing small. Still broke. And then it hit me: You can’t give what you refuse to receive. Money wasn’t the problem. My shame around it was. So I stopped resenting my bank account and started blessing it. I stopped judging my desires and started following them. I started creating a healthy relationship with money and now we’re best friends. And when I did?
I wasn’t just attracting money. I was becoming someone who could receive it—in all forms. 3. I Was Humble to a Fault—and It Was Keeping Me Invisible I used to share everyone else’s brilliance. But my own? I kept quiet. Because I believed being humble meant being silent. That if I shined too brightly, it made others uncomfortable. And I didn’t want to outgrow them. But then I heard something that rocked me: “Humility is often used by people who want you to shrink -- so they don’t have to stretch.” That’s when I realised: My silence was not virtue. It was fear. It was conditioning. So I started sharing—not to boast—but to reflect. To show what’s possible when we stop apologising for wanting more and that changed everything. You Can Do Everything “Right” And Still Feel Like You’re Missing Something You can journal. You can visualise. You can budget down to the penny. But if your energy is stuck in guilt, lack, and fear? Nothing will shift. Everything I do now—whether it’s money, love, visibility, sales, magnetism—comes from using energetic processes that changed my entire life. It’s not just about money. It’s about power. About perception. About showing up as the version of you who already has what she wants. That’s why I created and use my go-to energy process, Magnetic Mastery. It’s not mindset fluff. It’s not just affirmations. It’s the actual energetic framework I use before I speak, sell, or step into any room. Because when your energy speaks first, you never have to beg, chase, or convince again. You attract. You magnetise. You command. Ready to stop doing all the right things and finally get the results you deserve? Step into Magnetic Mastery and shift the one thing you actually have control over: Your energy. Because when you shift that? Everything else follows. May your energy always speak powerfully on your behalf—before you ever say a word. ~ Merry  A few years ago, I was convinced I was failing at life.
Everyone around me seemed to have it all figured out—launching uber successful businesses, putting their stuff out there on social media, hitting milestones—while I was questioning everything. I had this lingering feeling that I was running out of time. That I should’ve “arrived” by now. But then, something happened that changed everything. I started writing my book. At first, I thought the words would flow effortlessly. That I’d sit down, pour my soul onto the page, and have it done in no time. But the process humbled me. Some days, I couldn’t write at all. Other days, I scrapped everything I had written. Weeks turned into months, then years. And that’s when it hit me. Sometimes, the timing isn’t wrong—it’s just not right yet. Maybe it takes 65 years to figure out your story. Maybe your next breakthrough is still unfolding. Maybe you’re not stuck. Maybe you’re being prepared. Here are five signs you’re on the right path, even if it doesn’t feel like it. 1. You Feel Uncomfortable—Because You’re Growing If life feels messy, uncertain, and uncomfortable, congratulations—you’re expanding-growth isn’t cozy. If your goals feel out of reach, that means you’re aiming high. If you’re questioning your choices, it means you care about your future. If you feel like an imposter, it means you’re stepping into rooms you once thought were off-limits. Discomfort isn’t failure. It’s proof you’re moving forward. You’re not lost—you’re levelling up. 2. You’re Outgrowing People and Situations Ever notice how some conversations feel forced now? How certain friendships, jobs, or environments that once felt right suddenly feel heavy? That’s growth. Not everything (or everyone) is meant to come with you into your next chapter. Some relationships expire once they’ve served their purpose. Some spaces lose their magic because you’ve evolved beyond them. Let go. Make room. What’s meant for you will rise to meet you. 3. You Keep Facing Challenges—Because You’re Being Prepared It’s easy to think life is against you when obstacles keep piling up. But what if those challenges aren’t stopping you—they’re shaping you? What if every setback is rerouting you toward something better? What if every test is training you for your next level? Adversity is the fire that forges resilience. You may not see the purpose now, but one day, you’ll look back and realize every challenge was equipping you for something greater. 4. You Have Moments of Doubt—But You Keep Moving Forward Even the most successful people feel like they’re making it up as they go. The difference? They move forward anyway. Doubt isn’t the opposite of success. Doubt is a sign that you care. And every time you push through uncertainty, you’re building resilience. Confidence doesn’t come from knowing every step in advance. It comes from trusting yourself to figure it out along the way. And guess what? You haven’t given up yet. That alone means you’re exactly where you need to be. 5. You Feel a Deep Inner Knowing That You’re Meant for More Even on your worst days, you know settling isn’t an option.You may not see the full picture yet, but deep down, you feel it:
You Are Not Behind—You Are Becoming If you see yourself in any of these signs, let this be your reminder: You are not failing. You are not lost. You are evolving. Your next chapter is closer than you think. Growth doesn’t always feel like growth. But when you look back on this moment, you’ll realise you weren’t stuck—you were in the middle of your breakthrough. If you feel like something is energetically blocking you from moving forward, it might be time to clear it. Book an Intuitive consultation and release what’s been weighing you down.  Ever met someone who felt too familiar? Like you’ve known them forever—even though you’ve just met?
Or maybe you've had a relationship that was so intense, so life-altering, that it forced you to change? These aren’t coincidences. They’re soul contracts. Before you were born, you made agreements—binding spiritual contracts—with certain souls to help you evolve. Some are here to love you, others to challenge you, and a few will completely turn your world upside down. And here’s the truth: Not every soul contract is meant to be easy. Some are here to shake you awake. To push you into growth. To make sure you don’t stay small. But how do you know if someone is part of your soul contract? Let’s break it down. What Is a Soul Contract? A soul contract is a pre-birth agreement between souls. It maps out key relationships, experiences, and challenges you’ll encounter in this lifetime. You don’t remember signing this contract, but your soul does. Before entering this life, you worked with your guides, guardian angels, and higher self to design a blueprint for your journey. You chose certain people to help you learn, grow, and resolve unfinished energy from past lives. Some contracts are here to guide you. Some are here to test you. And some will feel like a battle between fate and free will. But every one of them serves a purpose. For Example… When I started doing psychic readings 20 years ago, I discovered that many people experienced similar past lives with current and past lovers. Chuck and I have lived many past lives intertwined with patriarchy, especially in Scotland. One theme kept repeating--power struggles over my intuitive and healing abilities. Lifetime after lifetime, I felt powerless, unable to stand fully in my gifts. In this life, that cycle resurfaced. When I finally stood up for myself, it nearly cost me my marriage. But in doing so, I healed the wound, broke the pattern, and completed that soul contract. The lesson is learned, the energy is resolved, and in future lifetimes, this chapter is likely closed. Types of Soul Contracts Not all soul contracts look the same. Some relationships are meant to support you, while others are here to challenge and transform you. 1. Light Contracts (Love & Support) These are the souls who bring you joy, healing, and unconditional love. They include:
2. Dark Contracts (Growth Through Struggle) Not every soul contract is pleasant. Some bring pain, betrayal, or heartbreak—but they serve a higher purpose. These can include:
3. Neutral Contracts (Crossroads & Choices) These are relationships where free will plays a huge role. They’re not set in stone but exist to present opportunities. For example:
10 Signs Someone Is Part of Your Soul Contract Not every connection in your life is a soul contract. Some people enter and exit without a deep spiritual purpose. But if you recognise these signs, you’re likely dealing with a soul contract: 1. Instant & Intense Connection You meet someone and immediately feel something powerful—whether it’s love, familiarity, or even discomfort. This is your soul recognising them before your mind does. 2. Repeating Patterns You keep attracting the same type of person or situation over and over again. That’s a sign of a karmic cycle trying to teach you something. 3. Strong Emotional Reactions They trigger something deep in you. They stir emotions—positive or negative—that feel disproportionate to the situation. That’s because your soul remembers them, even if your conscious mind doesn’t. 4. Divine Timing You bump into them repeatedly. You meet at exactly the right (or wrong) moment. Things align in ways that feel almost too perfect. This isn’t chance. It’s the contract unfolding. 5. A Sense of Destiny You know this person is meant to be in your life. Even if the relationship is painful or complicated, it feels important. 6. They Teach You a Critical Lesson Some soul contracts exist solely to help you learn something vital. These lessons often revolve around:
7. An Unbreakable Bond No matter how much time passes, or how far apart you are, the connection remains. Even if you cut ties, the impact lingers. 8. They Push You Out of Your Comfort Zone They challenge you in ways no one else does. They force you to grow, even when it’s really, really uncomfortable. 9. They Feel Familiar, Even If You Just Met The first time you meet them, it’s like you’ve known them forever. That’s because you have—just in a past life. 10. A Gut Feeling You Can’t Ignore Deep down, you know they’re part of something bigger. Trust that. Can a Soul Contract Be Changed? This is where free will comes in. You can’t just erase or rewrite a soul contract on a whim. These agreements remain intact, carrying through lifetimes—layering with old vows, beliefs, and unresolved energy. They grow stronger until you acknowledge them and do the work to clear them. Think of it as an unbreakable agreement with the Universe—one that never expires. (Imagine carrying the same patterns for hundreds, maybe even thousands, of years) But here’s the truth: your contract is a guide, not a prison. You may not be able to change the contract itself, but you can change how you respond to it. Here’s how:
A soul contract doesn’t control you. But if you’re repeating the same patterns, it’s time to break free. The choice is yours. Your soul contracts are shaping your life right now. Some are helping you heal. Some are making you stronger. And some are here to challenge everything you thought you knew. But every single one is pushing you toward the person you are meant to become. Uncover the truth behind your deepest connections. And more importantly—are you recognising the lessons your soul came here to master? Understanding these connections can shift everything. That’s why I offer Past Life Exploration—to help you uncover the shared soul contracts, past life bonds, and unresolved lessons still shaping your relationships today. When you see the patterns, you can finally break free. With appreciation and light, Merry P.S. If this post resonated with you, let me know—I’d love to create more content that supports your journey. And if you know someone who could benefit from this, feel free to share it with them.  You meet someone new, and things seem to be going well.
You’re drawn in by their charm, their attention, and that spark you’ve been craving. But then, something shifts. They start saying things that make you question your worth, or they subtly undermine your confidence. Suddenly, you find yourself in a relationship where you’re second-guessing everything and walking on eggshells. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. It’s a common experience for many, especially those who fall into the trap of harmful dating tactics—strategies designed to control and manipulate. Today, we’re pulling back the curtain on these tactics so you can recognise, protect yourself, and step back into your power. What These Tactics Look Like Harmful dating tactics often start subtly. These behaviours can include:
Why It’s So Harmful These tactics are not just emotionally draining; they can cause serious psychological harm. Research has shown that emotional manipulation in relationships can lead to increased anxiety, depression, and a decline in self-worth. Over time, you may start to believe the negative things they say about you, and it becomes a vicious cycle where their control over you grows stronger. I’ve been there before. I was once in a relationship where the person made me feel like I was the problem. They used gaslighting and negging so subtly that I didn’t even realize what was happening. It wasn’t until I stepped back and worked on my energy that I saw how I was being manipulated. That realisation was the game-changer. I knew I needed to take back my power and stop letting someone else dictate my worth. How to Spot the Signs Early So, how do you know when someone is using these tactics?
Protecting Yourself: How to Take Back Your Power
When to Seek Help If you find yourself caught in a web of these harmful tactics and are unsure how to break free, this is where an intuitive intelligence consultation comes in. It can provide behind-the-scenes intel, guidance tailored to your situation and empower you to attract relationships that truly honour who you are. You deserve a relationship that lifts you up, not one that tears you down. The choice is yours—take back your power today. With love and empowerment, Merry |
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