Welcome to WTF Blog (What The Frequency)—a space for deep insights, real experiences, and the unseen forces that shape our lives. Here, we explore the mysteries of energy, intuition, past lives and more—not as abstract concepts, but as tangible, powerful forces that influence your path. Whether you're here to decode patterns, expand your awareness, or just find a different perspective, you’re in the right place. Let’s explore what’s really going on beneath the surface.
 Let me take you back five years.
I had a mountain of credit card debt, anxiety in my chest every time I checked my bank account, and a burning desire to stop feeling like I was just surviving. I didn’t need millions. I just wanted to breathe. To not flinch every time a bill came in. So I made a decision: I would act as if. Not fake it. Not force it. But feel it. I wanted to be someone who could pay her bills—and a little extra. Give freely to others—and a little more. Feel supported by money instead of trapped by it. And what I uncovered about myself shocked the hell out of me. 1. I Thought I Wanted Money—But What I Really Wanted Was Freedom Every time I tapped my card or filled out a bill payment, I told myself the same story: “If I just had more money, I’d finally be okay.” But the moment I started acting like someone who already was okay—paying for organic produce without guilt, filling my gas tank all the way up for the first time in years—I realised… It wasn’t the money I craved. It was the freedom I thought it would buy me. I wanted to move through life without fear. To breathe without clenching. To make decisions from my power—not my panic. And get this: My actual financial circumstances didn’t change right away. But I did. I walked differently. I held my head higher. I felt wealthier. And I realised something no one tells you: Freedom is a frequency. And I could calibrate to it—before the numbers ever changed. 2. I Had Been Lying to Myself for Years I had this programmed belief—thank you, Catholic school—that wanting more money or more food than the starving children in India meant I was selfish. Unspiritual. Greedy. I thought having less made me more “good.” More worthy. More holy. But when I started acting as if—truly embodying abundance—I realised how wrong I’d been. Suddenly, I wanted to give more. I wanted to start a YouTube channel to help other women monetise their gifts. I wanted to teach them how to manifest and manage their money. I had visions of creating tools and programs to help others rise. But I couldn’t do any of it… Because I was still holding myself back. Still playing small. Still broke. And then it hit me: You can’t give what you refuse to receive. Money wasn’t the problem. My shame around it was. So I stopped resenting my bank account and started blessing it. I stopped judging my desires and started following them. I started creating a healthy relationship with money and now we’re best friends. And when I did?
I wasn’t just attracting money. I was becoming someone who could receive it—in all forms. 3. I Was Humble to a Fault—and It Was Keeping Me Invisible I used to share everyone else’s brilliance. But my own? I kept quiet. Because I believed being humble meant being silent. That if I shined too brightly, it made others uncomfortable. And I didn’t want to outgrow them. But then I heard something that rocked me: “Humility is often used by people who want you to shrink -- so they don’t have to stretch.” That’s when I realised: My silence was not virtue. It was fear. It was conditioning. So I started sharing—not to boast—but to reflect. To show what’s possible when we stop apologising for wanting more and that changed everything. You Can Do Everything “Right” And Still Feel Like You’re Missing Something You can journal. You can visualise. You can budget down to the penny. But if your energy is stuck in guilt, lack, and fear? Nothing will shift. Everything I do now—whether it’s money, love, visibility, sales, magnetism—comes from using energetic processes that changed my entire life. It’s not just about money. It’s about power. About perception. About showing up as the version of you who already has what she wants. That’s why I created and use my go-to energy process, Magnetic Mastery. It’s not mindset fluff. It’s not just affirmations. It’s the actual energetic framework I use before I speak, sell, or step into any room. Because when your energy speaks first, you never have to beg, chase, or convince again. You attract. You magnetise. You command. Ready to stop doing all the right things and finally get the results you deserve? Step into Magnetic Mastery and shift the one thing you actually have control over: Your energy. Because when you shift that? Everything else follows. May your energy always speak powerfully on your behalf—before you ever say a word. ~ Merry
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 A few years ago, I was convinced I was failing at life.
Everyone around me seemed to have it all figured out—launching uber successful businesses, putting their stuff out there on social media, hitting milestones—while I was questioning everything. I had this lingering feeling that I was running out of time. That I should’ve “arrived” by now. But then, something happened that changed everything. I started writing my book. At first, I thought the words would flow effortlessly. That I’d sit down, pour my soul onto the page, and have it done in no time. But the process humbled me. Some days, I couldn’t write at all. Other days, I scrapped everything I had written. Weeks turned into months, then years. And that’s when it hit me. Sometimes, the timing isn’t wrong—it’s just not right yet. Maybe it takes 65 years to figure out your story. Maybe your next breakthrough is still unfolding. Maybe you’re not stuck. Maybe you’re being prepared. Here are five signs you’re on the right path, even if it doesn’t feel like it. 1. You Feel Uncomfortable—Because You’re Growing If life feels messy, uncertain, and uncomfortable, congratulations—you’re expanding-growth isn’t cozy. If your goals feel out of reach, that means you’re aiming high. If you’re questioning your choices, it means you care about your future. If you feel like an imposter, it means you’re stepping into rooms you once thought were off-limits. Discomfort isn’t failure. It’s proof you’re moving forward. You’re not lost—you’re levelling up. 2. You’re Outgrowing People and Situations Ever notice how some conversations feel forced now? How certain friendships, jobs, or environments that once felt right suddenly feel heavy? That’s growth. Not everything (or everyone) is meant to come with you into your next chapter. Some relationships expire once they’ve served their purpose. Some spaces lose their magic because you’ve evolved beyond them. Let go. Make room. What’s meant for you will rise to meet you. 3. You Keep Facing Challenges—Because You’re Being Prepared It’s easy to think life is against you when obstacles keep piling up. But what if those challenges aren’t stopping you—they’re shaping you? What if every setback is rerouting you toward something better? What if every test is training you for your next level? Adversity is the fire that forges resilience. You may not see the purpose now, but one day, you’ll look back and realize every challenge was equipping you for something greater. 4. You Have Moments of Doubt—But You Keep Moving Forward Even the most successful people feel like they’re making it up as they go. The difference? They move forward anyway. Doubt isn’t the opposite of success. Doubt is a sign that you care. And every time you push through uncertainty, you’re building resilience. Confidence doesn’t come from knowing every step in advance. It comes from trusting yourself to figure it out along the way. And guess what? You haven’t given up yet. That alone means you’re exactly where you need to be. 5. You Feel a Deep Inner Knowing That You’re Meant for More Even on your worst days, you know settling isn’t an option.You may not see the full picture yet, but deep down, you feel it:
You Are Not Behind—You Are Becoming If you see yourself in any of these signs, let this be your reminder: You are not failing. You are not lost. You are evolving. Your next chapter is closer than you think. Growth doesn’t always feel like growth. But when you look back on this moment, you’ll realise you weren’t stuck—you were in the middle of your breakthrough. If you feel like something is energetically blocking you from moving forward, it might be time to clear it. Book an Intuitive consultation and release what’s been weighing you down.  Ever met someone who felt too familiar? Like you’ve known them forever—even though you’ve just met?
Or maybe you've had a relationship that was so intense, so life-altering, that it forced you to change? These aren’t coincidences. They’re soul contracts. Before you were born, you made agreements—binding spiritual contracts—with certain souls to help you evolve. Some are here to love you, others to challenge you, and a few will completely turn your world upside down. And here’s the truth: Not every soul contract is meant to be easy. Some are here to shake you awake. To push you into growth. To make sure you don’t stay small. But how do you know if someone is part of your soul contract? Let’s break it down. What Is a Soul Contract? A soul contract is a pre-birth agreement between souls. It maps out key relationships, experiences, and challenges you’ll encounter in this lifetime. You don’t remember signing this contract, but your soul does. Before entering this life, you worked with your guides, guardian angels, and higher self to design a blueprint for your journey. You chose certain people to help you learn, grow, and resolve unfinished energy from past lives. Some contracts are here to guide you. Some are here to test you. And some will feel like a battle between fate and free will. But every one of them serves a purpose. For Example… When I started doing psychic readings 20 years ago, I discovered that many people experienced similar past lives with current and past lovers. Chuck and I have lived many past lives intertwined with patriarchy, especially in Scotland. One theme kept repeating--power struggles over my intuitive and healing abilities. Lifetime after lifetime, I felt powerless, unable to stand fully in my gifts. In this life, that cycle resurfaced. When I finally stood up for myself, it nearly cost me my marriage. But in doing so, I healed the wound, broke the pattern, and completed that soul contract. The lesson is learned, the energy is resolved, and in future lifetimes, this chapter is likely closed. Types of Soul Contracts Not all soul contracts look the same. Some relationships are meant to support you, while others are here to challenge and transform you. 1. Light Contracts (Love & Support) These are the souls who bring you joy, healing, and unconditional love. They include:
2. Dark Contracts (Growth Through Struggle) Not every soul contract is pleasant. Some bring pain, betrayal, or heartbreak—but they serve a higher purpose. These can include:
3. Neutral Contracts (Crossroads & Choices) These are relationships where free will plays a huge role. They’re not set in stone but exist to present opportunities. For example:
10 Signs Someone Is Part of Your Soul Contract Not every connection in your life is a soul contract. Some people enter and exit without a deep spiritual purpose. But if you recognise these signs, you’re likely dealing with a soul contract: 1. Instant & Intense Connection You meet someone and immediately feel something powerful—whether it’s love, familiarity, or even discomfort. This is your soul recognising them before your mind does. 2. Repeating Patterns You keep attracting the same type of person or situation over and over again. That’s a sign of a karmic cycle trying to teach you something. 3. Strong Emotional Reactions They trigger something deep in you. They stir emotions—positive or negative—that feel disproportionate to the situation. That’s because your soul remembers them, even if your conscious mind doesn’t. 4. Divine Timing You bump into them repeatedly. You meet at exactly the right (or wrong) moment. Things align in ways that feel almost too perfect. This isn’t chance. It’s the contract unfolding. 5. A Sense of Destiny You know this person is meant to be in your life. Even if the relationship is painful or complicated, it feels important. 6. They Teach You a Critical Lesson Some soul contracts exist solely to help you learn something vital. These lessons often revolve around:
7. An Unbreakable Bond No matter how much time passes, or how far apart you are, the connection remains. Even if you cut ties, the impact lingers. 8. They Push You Out of Your Comfort Zone They challenge you in ways no one else does. They force you to grow, even when it’s really, really uncomfortable. 9. They Feel Familiar, Even If You Just Met The first time you meet them, it’s like you’ve known them forever. That’s because you have—just in a past life. 10. A Gut Feeling You Can’t Ignore Deep down, you know they’re part of something bigger. Trust that. Can a Soul Contract Be Changed? This is where free will comes in. You can’t just erase or rewrite a soul contract on a whim. These agreements remain intact, carrying through lifetimes—layering with old vows, beliefs, and unresolved energy. They grow stronger until you acknowledge them and do the work to clear them. Think of it as an unbreakable agreement with the Universe—one that never expires. (Imagine carrying the same patterns for hundreds, maybe even thousands, of years) But here’s the truth: your contract is a guide, not a prison. You may not be able to change the contract itself, but you can change how you respond to it. Here’s how:
A soul contract doesn’t control you. But if you’re repeating the same patterns, it’s time to break free. The choice is yours. Your soul contracts are shaping your life right now. Some are helping you heal. Some are making you stronger. And some are here to challenge everything you thought you knew. But every single one is pushing you toward the person you are meant to become. Uncover the truth behind your deepest connections. And more importantly—are you recognising the lessons your soul came here to master? Understanding these connections can shift everything. That’s why I offer Past Life Exploration—to help you uncover the shared soul contracts, past life bonds, and unresolved lessons still shaping your relationships today. When you see the patterns, you can finally break free. With appreciation and light, Merry P.S. If this post resonated with you, let me know—I’d love to create more content that supports your journey. And if you know someone who could benefit from this, feel free to share it with them. |
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