 Let’s be real—when you’re stuck at a crossroads, it can feel like the weight of your past is dragging you down. You’re replaying old choices, rehashing memories, and wondering how you got here.
And the future? It feels like a blank space, filled with uncertainty, fear, and doubt. But here’s the truth: You are not stuck. You are not powerless. The future is yours to create. And it’s time to stop letting the past control your next move. This is your wake-up call to reclaim your life, step into your truth, and own your power. What To Do When Your Past Is Running the Show… Take Amy’s story. After years of being trapped in a toxic marriage to a narcissist, she was ready to break free—but she didn’t know how. Her husband had spent years undermining her confidence, isolating her from her loved ones, and making her feel like she was always one step away from losing control. He belittled her in front of their kids, twisting every word she said to maintain his hold over her life. Amy knew she needed to leave. She could feel it in her bones, but fear kept her frozen. What if he retaliated? What if the divorce destroyed her children? She was paralysed—allowing his influence to run the show, dictating her every move, even after years of emotional abuse. During our Directives Consultation, we didn’t just talk about her fear. We dove deep into her timeline. We looked at the years of manipulation, how his gaslighting had kept her doubting her own strength, and why these old wounds were still pulling her strings. By unearthing the patterns of control from her past, Amy started to see how her husband had woven himself into her thoughts, her energy, and her choices. Then, we turned to the present. What is happening right now? We peeled back the layers of her current situation—how his energy was still suffocating her, keeping her locked in self-doubt and fear. Step by step, we dismantled the toxic power dynamics and got real about how his manipulation was keeping her from standing in her power. Finally, we did what every empowered woman must do—we looked forward. What would happen if she stayed? What would happen if she left? We mapped it all out—the fears, the consequences, the possibilities. Amy could see her future unfolding in two directions, and once she chose her path, everything shifted. Here’s the kicker… I didn’t tell her what to do. I empowered her to make a decision from a place of clarity, power, and truth. Once Amy made the decision to ask for a divorce, I used vibrational-influence techniques to make sure her path forward wasn’t filled with struggle and resistance. Instead of the constant battles she had feared, the energy shifted in her favour. Her husband didn’t fight her the way she expected, the legal process flowed more smoothly than she could have imagined, and even her children felt the ripple effect of the calm and peace Amy had created. By stepping into her power and aligning her decision with her truth, Amy didn’t just break free—she took control of her future. Take Back Your Power This isn’t about whether you make the “right” or “wrong” decision—it’s about making the decision that aligns with you, your truth, and your future. You’re not just picking a path—you’re choosing how your life unfolds from here. When you get clear on the patterns of your past, the energy of your present, and the possibilities of your future, you’re not just reacting to life anymore. You’re creating your reality. And the best part? You don’t have to do it alone. In a Directives Consultation, I’m here to help you navigate that timeline, uncover the lessons, and shift the energy so that your path forward is clear, aligned, and empowered. Own Your Life, Own Your Future Let’s get one thing straight—you are the creator of your own reality. You hold the power to step out of the shadows of your past and into the future you want. It’s time to let go of the old stories, the limiting beliefs, and the fear-based decisions that have been holding you back. You’re not just making decisions—you’re shaping your world, aligning with your power, and calling the shots. It’s time to rewrite your future from a place of truth, clarity, and confidence. Ready to Step Into Your Power? Are you ready to stop living under the influence of your past? Ready to reclaim your truth and make decisions that align with your highest self? Your future is waiting for you to show up. Book a Directives Consultation today, and let’s dive into your timeline. Together, we’ll create a path that’s clear, powerful, and aligned with your deepest truth. Right now, you can get $120 off until 10/1/24 when you use the code DIRECT at checkout. Take advantage of this limited-time offer and reclaim your power. Your future is waiting—let’s create it together. With love, power, and clarity, Merry
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 We often think of intuition as a tool for clarity and insight, guiding us to make empowered decisions and align with our highest good. But what happens when intuition is being used against you?
That’s right—just as you can harness your intuitive power to elevate your life and business, others can use theirs to manipulate, control, or influence you to their advantage. Let me share a client story that shows exactly how this works—and how to stop it in its tracks. The Client Who Almost Signed Away Her Power One of my clients, let’s call her Sarah, came to me after being stuck in a drawn-out negotiation. She was in the process of signing a contract with a new business partner, and on the surface, everything seemed fine. The terms were laid out, the numbers looked good, and logically, it all made sense. But Sarah had a feeling she couldn’t shake. Something was off, and her usually sharp intuition was clouded. No matter how many times she looked at the contract, she couldn’t put her finger on why she felt so uneasy. During our session, I helped Sarah tune back into her own intuition, while also using my intuitive intelligence to tap into the vibrational dynamics of the negotiation. It became crystal clear that her potential business partner was subtly manipulating the energy of the deal. How? By using his own intuitive abilities to make Sarah feel like she needed him more than he needed her. He was playing a power game—projecting a sense of urgency and scarcity that wasn’t real. His energy was intentionally lowering her confidence and making her question her own worth in the partnership. Sarah was being energetically undermined without even realising it. This is a tactic I’ve seen time and time again in negotiations, both in business and personal relationships. When someone else’s intuition is being used to influence you negatively, it can feel like you’re swimming through fog—unable to see the truth, but knowing something isn’t right. How I Shifted the Energy Once we identified the manipulation at play, I focused on strengthening Sarah’s own energetic field and intuition. Then I employed some vibrational-influence techniques to help her realign with her power, amplifying her confidence and clearing away the fog that had been clouding her judgment. When Sarah went back to the negotiation table, the energy had completely shifted. She was no longer vulnerable to the subtle pressure her business partner was applying. Instead, she stood firm, fully aware of her own value and not swayed by his attempts to control the situation. The result? She walked away with a deal that was entirely on her terms—and it felt right. How You Can Safeguard Your Energy in Negotiations: 1. If you ever find yourself feeling uncertain, foggy, or doubting your worth in a negotiation, take a step back. Ask yourself, "Does my energy feel off?" (Remember... Sara's intuition felt cloudy when her energy was normally crystal clear) 2. Then, ask yourself if the energy you’re picking up is truly your own, or if it’s being influenced by someone else’s agenda - this could be someone you are currently working with or someone who you've dealt with in the past who doesn't have your best interest at heart. 3. If you're unsure, ask the Universe for a sign - something unique - that you will see within 3 days or weeks. 3. Remember: energy speaks louder than words. If something feels off, trust that nudge. It’s likely that someone is using their intuitive intelligence to sway the outcome in their favour. And that’s where I come in. In my Directives Consultation, I employ subtle, vibrational-influence techniques to help you reach your desired outcomes—whether it’s opening doors to new opportunities, safeguarding your interests (this is how I helped Sarah), planning strategically, or fostering cooperation. This skillset proves particularly effective in areas like sales, negotiations, and relationship dynamics, both personal and professional. If you want to make sure that no one is undermining your energy, and you’re fully aligned with the success you deserve, let’s work together. My methods will ensure you stay in your power, unaffected by external manipulation, and make decisions that are true to your higher self. Ready to take charge and protect your energy in every negotiation? Book a one-on-one Directives Consultation, and together we’ll make sure you’re the one steering the ship—not anyone else. With love and intuitive clarity, Merry |
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