You’re Not Lost—You’re in the Middle of Your Breakthrough

A few years ago, I was convinced I was failing at life.

​Everyone around me seemed to have it all figured out—launching uber successful businesses, putting their stuff out there on social media, hitting milestones—while I was questioning everything.

I had this lingering feeling that I was running out of time.

That I should’ve “arrived” by now. But then, something happened that changed everything.

I started writing my book.

At first, I thought the words would flow effortlessly. That I’d sit down, pour my soul onto the page, and have it done in no time. But the process humbled me.

Some days, I couldn’t write at all. Other days, I scrapped everything I had written. Weeks turned into months, then years. And that’s when it hit me.

Sometimes, the timing isn’t wrong—it’s just not right yet.

Maybe it takes 65 years to figure out your story.
Maybe your next breakthrough is still unfolding.
Maybe you’re not stuck.  
Maybe you’re being prepared.

Here are five signs you’re on the right path, even if it doesn’t feel like it.

1. You Feel Uncomfortable—Because You’re Growing
If life feels messy, uncertain, and uncomfortable, congratulations—you’re expanding-growth isn’t cozy.

If your goals feel out of reach, that means you’re aiming high. If you’re questioning your choices, it means you care about your future. If you feel like an imposter, it means you’re stepping into rooms you once thought were off-limits.

Discomfort isn’t failure. It’s proof you’re moving forward. You’re not lost—you’re levelling up.

2. You’re Outgrowing People and Situations
Ever notice how some conversations feel forced now? How certain friendships, jobs, or environments that once felt right suddenly feel heavy?
That’s growth.

Not everything (or everyone) is meant to come with you into your next chapter. Some relationships expire once they’ve served their purpose. Some spaces lose their magic because you’ve evolved beyond them.

Let go. Make room. What’s meant for you will rise to meet you.

3. You Keep Facing Challenges—Because You’re Being Prepared
It’s easy to think life is against you when obstacles keep piling up. But what if those challenges aren’t stopping you—they’re shaping you?

What if every setback is rerouting you toward something better? What if every test is training you for your next level?

Adversity is the fire that forges resilience. You may not see the purpose now, but one day, you’ll look back and realize every challenge was equipping you for something greater.

4. You Have Moments of Doubt—But You Keep Moving Forward
Even the most successful people feel like they’re making it up as they go. The difference? They move forward anyway.

Doubt isn’t the opposite of success. Doubt is a sign that you care. And every time you push through uncertainty, you’re building resilience.

Confidence doesn’t come from knowing every step in advance. It comes from trusting yourself to figure it out along the way.

And guess what? You haven’t given up yet. That alone means you’re exactly where you need to be.

5. You Feel a Deep Inner Knowing That You’re Meant for More
Even on your worst days, you know settling isn’t an option.You may not see the full picture yet, but deep down, you feel it:

• You were meant for something bigger.
• You refuse to live a life that doesn’t excite you.
• You get frustrated when you see people settling for less than they deserve.
• You’d rather struggle for something meaningful than succeed at something empty.

That knowing? It’s your compass. Even when you feel lost, it’s guiding you exactly where you need to go.

You Are Not Behind—You Are Becoming
​If you see yourself in any of these signs, let this be your reminder:
You are not failing.
You are not lost.
You are evolving.

Your next chapter is closer than you think.
Growth doesn’t always feel like growth.

But when you look back on this moment, you’ll realise you weren’t stuck—you were in the middle of your breakthrough.

If you feel like something is energetically blocking you from moving forward, it might be time to clear it. Book an Intuitive consultation and release what’s been weighing you down.