99% of People Are Doing This Wrong... Are You One Of Them?

Let me take you back five years.

I had a mountain of credit card debt, anxiety in my chest every time I checked my bank account, and a burning desire to stop feeling like I was just surviving. I didn’t need millions. I just wanted to breathe. To not flinch every time a bill came in.

So I made a decision: I would act as if.

Not fake it.
Not force it.
But feel it.

I wanted to be someone who could pay her bills—and a little extra.
Give freely to others—and a little more.
Feel supported by money instead of trapped by it.

And what I uncovered about myself shocked the hell out of me.

1. I Thought I Wanted Money—But What I Really Wanted Was Freedom
Every time I tapped my card or filled out a bill payment, I told myself the same story: “If I just had more money, I’d finally be okay.”

But the moment I started acting like someone who already was okay—paying for organic produce without guilt, filling my gas tank all the way up for the first time in years—I realised…

It wasn’t the money I craved.
It was the freedom I thought it would buy me.

I wanted to move through life without fear.
To breathe without clenching.
To make decisions from my power—not my panic.

And get this: My actual financial circumstances didn’t change right away. But I did.

I walked differently.
I held my head higher.
I felt wealthier.

And I realised something no one tells you: Freedom is a frequency.
And I could calibrate to it—before the numbers ever changed.

2. I Had Been Lying to Myself for Years
I had this programmed belief—thank you, Catholic school—that wanting more money or more food than the starving children in India meant I was selfish. Unspiritual. Greedy.

I thought having less made me more “good.”
More worthy.
More holy.

But when I started acting as if—truly embodying abundance—I realised how wrong I’d been.

Suddenly, I wanted to give more.
I wanted to start a YouTube channel to help other women monetise their gifts.
I wanted to teach them how to manifest and manage their money.
I had visions of creating tools and programs to help others rise.

But I couldn’t do any of it…
Because I was still holding myself back.
Still playing small.
Still broke.

And then it hit me: You can’t give what you refuse to receive.

Money wasn’t the problem. My shame around it was.

So I stopped resenting my bank account and started blessing it.
I stopped judging my desires and started following them. I started creating a healthy relationship with money and now we’re best friends.

And when I did?

• People offered their time, skills, food, and yes—money.
• Clients showed up from nowhere.
• Ideas flowed like a faucet I’d unknowingly kept turned off.

I wasn’t just attracting money.
I was becoming someone who could receive it—in all forms.

3. I Was Humble to a Fault—and It Was Keeping Me Invisible
I used to share everyone else’s brilliance. But my own? I kept quiet.

Because I believed being humble meant being silent.
That if I shined too brightly, it made others uncomfortable.
And I didn’t want to outgrow them.

But then I heard something that rocked me: “Humility is often used by people who want you to shrink -- so they don’t have to stretch.” 

That’s when I realised: My silence was not virtue. It was fear. It was conditioning.

So I started sharing—not to boast—but to reflect.

To show what’s possible when we stop apologising for wanting more and that changed everything.

You Can Do Everything “Right” And Still Feel Like You’re Missing Something

You can journal.
You can visualise.
You can budget down to the penny.

But if your energy is stuck in guilt, lack, and fear? Nothing will shift.

Everything I do now—whether it’s money, love, visibility, sales, magnetism—comes from using energetic processes that changed my entire life. 

It’s not just about money.
It’s about power.
About perception.
About showing up as the version of you who already has what she wants.

That’s why I created and use my go-to energy process, Magnetic Mastery.

It’s not mindset fluff.
It’s not just affirmations.

It’s the actual energetic framework I use before I speak, sell, or step into any room.

Because when your energy speaks first, you never have to beg, chase, or convince again.

You attract.
You magnetise.
You command.

Ready to stop doing all the right things and finally get the results you deserve?

Step into Magnetic Mastery and shift the one thing you actually have control over: Your energy. Because when you shift that?  Everything else follows.
​May your energy always speak powerfully on your behalf—before you ever say a word.

~ Merry