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 “Trust the Universe” sounds cute on a sticker. But let’s be honest — the real version?
It’s messier. Louder. Scarier. And way more transformative. Everyone romanticises it like it’s sipping tea on a meditation cushion under a string of fairy lights. But let’s talk about what it really looks like. It looks like quitting the job with no backup plan while your hands shake. Sitting in the void with a cracked-open heart and a pit in your stomach. Choosing stillness when every part of you wants to run. You’ve been taught that trust feels like floating. But here’s the truth: Real trust feels like free fall. Not the soft, spiritual high of “surrender and you’ll receive.” No — this is the kind of trust that strips you. It humbles you. It asks you to keep walking blindfolded through the fog and still believe the road is unfolding in your favour. Trust Isn’t Clean. It’s Chaos That Clarifies. The moment you say “I trust you, Universe,” things rarely fall into place right away. More often, they fall apart. Not because you’re being punished. But because what you’re holding isn’t aligned with where you’re going. Opportunities vanish. People ghost. Timelines dissolve. And you’re left wondering if this whole “trust and surrender” thing was just spiritual fluff. But here’s the rub: Trust doesn’t mean you get what you want. It means you become who you’re meant to be. What Trust Really Looks Like:
It’s not glamorous. It’s not Instagrammable. It’s faith in the fire. Silence Doesn’t Mean Abandonment You think your spirit guides ghosted you? That the Universe stopped talking? No, love. Silence is part of the initiation. It’s the space where your ego dissolves and your intuition gets louder. It’s where you learn to stop chasing signs and start trusting your own resonance. Sometimes the answers don’t come until after you move. That’s not a glitch. That’s how the code is written. Trust Humbles You — On Purpose Real trust strips away your illusions of control. You will release identities you clung to. Comforts that sedated you. People who never truly saw you. And in that shedding, you’ll meet the you who’s been waiting underneath it all. Not the curated version. The real one. The one who leads. Who listens. Who no longer begs life to prove their worth. The Right Path Isn’t Always the Easy One We want the clear road. The smooth ride. But the most aligned path? It might ask you to:
The Moment You Know You’re Trusting It’s not when the thing arrives. It’s not when it finally makes sense. It’s when you stop needing the outcome at all. When you stop begging the Universe to fix it and start meeting life exactly as it is. That’s when the shift begins. When your nervous system unclenches. When your heart cracks open. When your power comes back online. That’s real trust. So, What Do You Do Now? You stop overthinking and start embodying. Here’s your practice:
Trust isn’t a feeling. It’s a frequency. You tune into it choice by choice, breath by breath. And over time, it transforms your entire field. You stop chasing. You start attracting. You stop begging. You start magnetising. Because your soul didn’t come here to control. It came to co-create. So let go. The Universe isn’t testing you. It’s responding to the real you — the one who’s brave enough to surrender. Ready to tune into your intuition, make aligned decisions, and finally stop second-guessing yourself? Book an Intuitive Intelligence Consultation and let’s decode what your energy already knows. Because you don’t need another sign. You are the signal.
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 Sometimes, the most powerful move you can make is the one that feels the hardest: stepping back.
Not out of bitterness. Not to manipulate. But from self-respect. As empaths, healers, and deeply attuned beings, we often give our presence freely. We show up. We pour in. We hold space. But when that energy is unreciprocated or unappreciated, it starts to chip away at our spirit. So let them miss you. Not as a strategy to make someone chase you — but as a soul-led decision to reclaim your frequency. Your presence is a privilege, not a punishment. And when you’re constantly available, your magic becomes background noise. Taken for granted. Expected. But when you pull your energy back with clarity and intention, it creates sacred space. Space for reflection. Space for appreciation. Space for revelation. This isn’t about abandonment. It’s about energetic sovereignty. Let them feel your absence. Let them notice what shifts when your light isn’t in the room. That silence? That stillness? It amplifies the truth. Because you don’t prove your worth by being ever-present. You reveal it by what’s felt when you’re not. If the connection is real, your absence will echo louder than your presence ever could. And if it’s not? Then no amount of staying, proving, or overextending will change a thing. Your value is not up for debate. Pulling back allows you to observe. Do they reach for you? Do they notice the shift? Do they show up, or slowly drift? Their response is your answer. No need to beg. No need to explain. The people who are aligned with your evolution will feel your absence as a call — and they’ll respond. Not because they’ve been trained to, but because they want to. And those who don’t? Let them go. Let them drift so you can lift. You’re not meant to be in everyone’s orbit. You’re not for those who require you to dim, shrink, or constantly explain your worth. Let them miss the love, the presence, the insight, the unwavering support you brought. Let them remember your laugh, your softness, your fire. And while they sit with the space you left behind — fill that space within yourself. Reclaim your own attention. Pour back into your own well. Remember who you are when you’re not trying to be everything for everyone. You are not defined by your role in anyone else’s story. You are the author of your own. So inhale. Reset. Re-align. Honouring yourself in this way is not selfish — it’s sacred. Let them miss you. Let them feel the weight of your absence.Let them decide what it’s worth. And no matter the outcome — stay anchored in your power. Because you are whole, even when you walk away. ~ Merry Ready to reclaim your energy and walk in your power? Book a Spiritual Mastery Consultation and let’s unlock the version of you that doesn’t beg, chase, or doubt. Click HERE to schedule your session.  Let’s get something straight: Your spirit team didn’t ghost you. The Universe didn’t hit mute. Your guides didn’t go on sabbatical.
I know how damaging that seed of doubt can be. It whispers things like: “Maybe I’m not gifted.” “Maybe I’ve outgrown my guidance.” “Maybe they left me behind.” It makes you feel abandoned. Disconnected. Dreadful. No. Stop. They’re still here. Loud. Clear. Communicating 24/7. The question isn’t, “Why did they stop talking?” It’s, “How did I stop tuning in?” Here’s the unfiltered truth:
Why It Feels Like They’re Gone You’re not broken. You’re not disconnected. But you may be off-frequency. Think of spirit communication like a radio station. If you’re tuned one click off, you’ll get static — but the station is still broadcasting. Here’s what can pull you out of range: 1. Frequency Misalignment Fear. Stress. Doom-scrolling. All of it weighs you down. Spirit guides vibrate at higher frequencies. If you're steeped in heaviness, it muffles their messages. 2. Matrix Distractions You get caught up in bills, schedules, deadlines, likes. You forget to sit with yourself. You forget your breath is a portal and your presence is power. You’re not “cut off” — you’re just consumed. 3. Emotional Static If your inner world is a storm, it’s hard to hear a whisper. Guides don’t shout. They nudge. They vibe. Your job isn’t to yell into the void — it’s to soften the noise and listen differently. 4. False Expectations You’re waiting for a neon sign, but your guide whispered it to you through a song lyric yesterday. Or that repeating number you brushed off. Or the chill on your skin you ignored. They are speaking. You just forgot the language. 5. Integration Periods Sometimes the silence is sacred. After a breakthrough, your nervous system needs to catch up. Your guides step back not because they’ve left — but because you’re meant to embody what they’ve already shared. How They’re STILL Speaking (Even If You’re Missing It) Repeating Numbers + Synchronicities If 444 keeps showing up, don’t question it. Receive it. You asked for signs. They delivered. Spirit speaks in patterns — but only the awake recognize the code. Dreams + Meditation Downloads That strange dream? That phrase that echoed in your mind while meditating? They’re breadcrumbs. You’re being led. Write it down. Track the trail. Nature, Animals, and Elements That crow? That gust of wind right when you asked for clarity? That wild synchronicity with a cat (hello, Bastet)? Spirit moves through all of it. Intuitive Nudges That pull to go left instead of right. That feeling to text someone. That “something’s off” hunch. Your guides don’t always talk — they tingle. They urge. They whisper through knowing. Cosmic Downloads I receive downloads of prophetic information and visions — but that’s just my flavour of connection. Yours might be poetic. Artistic. Somatic. The method doesn’t matter. The message always arrives. So How Do You Re-Tune? You don’t force it. You feel it. You stop the noise. You recalibrate. Here’s how: 1. Raise Your Vibe Play music that lifts you. Move your body. Go barefoot in the grass. The higher you vibrate, the clearer the signal becomes. 2. Get Quiet Silence isn’t emptiness. It’s invitation. Spirit lives in the pause between your thoughts. 3. Ask Stop doubting and start dialoguing. Your guides aren’t judging your wording. Speak from the heart. Ask aloud. Journal it out. Expect an answer. 4. Clear the Static Cleanse your field like you’d clean your house before guests arrive. Salt baths. Smoke clearing. EFT. Reiki. Whatever works — just do it. 5. Trust the Subtle Don’t wait for the fireworks. Start honouring the flicker. The more you trust the small signs, the louder they get. Truth Bomb: Guides Don’t Abandon You If it feels like spirit is silent, don’t spiral — realign. You don’t need to earn connection. You are the connection. Your channel didn’t break. It got a little dusty. Wipe it clean. Plug back in. And remember: The Universe doesn’t stop speaking. Your guides didn’t leave you. Your job is to listen with your whole being. And when you do? The cosmic conversation gets LOUD. Now’s the time to come back home to your knowing. They’ve been waiting. Ready to Reconnect, Realign, and Rise? If you're craving deeper clarity, stronger connection with your guides, and a complete energetic recalibration — this is your sign. The Spiritual Mastery Consultation is your personal portal to divine insight, intuitive realignment, and energetic expansion. You’ll walk away with clear guidance, activated gifts, and next steps to embody your spiritual power. We’ll go deep. We’ll get clear. We’ll clear the noise. And we’ll reawaken the version of you who never stopped hearing the call. With Love and Gratitude, ~Merry  Let me take you back five years.
I had a mountain of credit card debt, anxiety in my chest every time I checked my bank account, and a burning desire to stop feeling like I was just surviving. I didn’t need millions. I just wanted to breathe. To not flinch every time a bill came in. So I made a decision: I would act as if. Not fake it. Not force it. But feel it. I wanted to be someone who could pay her bills—and a little extra. Give freely to others—and a little more. Feel supported by money instead of trapped by it. And what I uncovered about myself shocked the hell out of me. 1. I Thought I Wanted Money—But What I Really Wanted Was Freedom Every time I tapped my card or filled out a bill payment, I told myself the same story: “If I just had more money, I’d finally be okay.” But the moment I started acting like someone who already was okay—paying for organic produce without guilt, filling my gas tank all the way up for the first time in years—I realised… It wasn’t the money I craved. It was the freedom I thought it would buy me. I wanted to move through life without fear. To breathe without clenching. To make decisions from my power—not my panic. And get this: My actual financial circumstances didn’t change right away. But I did. I walked differently. I held my head higher. I felt wealthier. And I realised something no one tells you: Freedom is a frequency. And I could calibrate to it—before the numbers ever changed. 2. I Had Been Lying to Myself for Years I had this programmed belief—thank you, Catholic school—that wanting more money or more food than the starving children in India meant I was selfish. Unspiritual. Greedy. I thought having less made me more “good.” More worthy. More holy. But when I started acting as if—truly embodying abundance—I realised how wrong I’d been. Suddenly, I wanted to give more. I wanted to start a YouTube channel to help other women monetise their gifts. I wanted to teach them how to manifest and manage their money. I had visions of creating tools and programs to help others rise. But I couldn’t do any of it… Because I was still holding myself back. Still playing small. Still broke. And then it hit me: You can’t give what you refuse to receive. Money wasn’t the problem. My shame around it was. So I stopped resenting my bank account and started blessing it. I stopped judging my desires and started following them. I started creating a healthy relationship with money and now we’re best friends. And when I did?
I wasn’t just attracting money. I was becoming someone who could receive it—in all forms. 3. I Was Humble to a Fault—and It Was Keeping Me Invisible I used to share everyone else’s brilliance. But my own? I kept quiet. Because I believed being humble meant being silent. That if I shined too brightly, it made others uncomfortable. And I didn’t want to outgrow them. But then I heard something that rocked me: “Humility is often used by people who want you to shrink -- so they don’t have to stretch.” That’s when I realised: My silence was not virtue. It was fear. It was conditioning. So I started sharing—not to boast—but to reflect. To show what’s possible when we stop apologising for wanting more and that changed everything. You Can Do Everything “Right” And Still Feel Like You’re Missing Something You can journal. You can visualise. You can budget down to the penny. But if your energy is stuck in guilt, lack, and fear? Nothing will shift. Everything I do now—whether it’s money, love, visibility, sales, magnetism—comes from using energetic processes that changed my entire life. It’s not just about money. It’s about power. About perception. About showing up as the version of you who already has what she wants. That’s why I created and use my go-to energy process, Magnetic Mastery. It’s not mindset fluff. It’s not just affirmations. It’s the actual energetic framework I use before I speak, sell, or step into any room. Because when your energy speaks first, you never have to beg, chase, or convince again. You attract. You magnetise. You command. Ready to stop doing all the right things and finally get the results you deserve? Step into Magnetic Mastery and shift the one thing you actually have control over: Your energy. Because when you shift that? Everything else follows. May your energy always speak powerfully on your behalf—before you ever say a word. ~ Merry  A few years ago, I was convinced I was failing at life.
Everyone around me seemed to have it all figured out—launching uber successful businesses, putting their stuff out there on social media, hitting milestones—while I was questioning everything. I had this lingering feeling that I was running out of time. That I should’ve “arrived” by now. But then, something happened that changed everything. I started writing my book. At first, I thought the words would flow effortlessly. That I’d sit down, pour my soul onto the page, and have it done in no time. But the process humbled me. Some days, I couldn’t write at all. Other days, I scrapped everything I had written. Weeks turned into months, then years. And that’s when it hit me. Sometimes, the timing isn’t wrong—it’s just not right yet. Maybe it takes 65 years to figure out your story. Maybe your next breakthrough is still unfolding. Maybe you’re not stuck. Maybe you’re being prepared. Here are five signs you’re on the right path, even if it doesn’t feel like it. 1. You Feel Uncomfortable—Because You’re Growing If life feels messy, uncertain, and uncomfortable, congratulations—you’re expanding-growth isn’t cozy. If your goals feel out of reach, that means you’re aiming high. If you’re questioning your choices, it means you care about your future. If you feel like an imposter, it means you’re stepping into rooms you once thought were off-limits. Discomfort isn’t failure. It’s proof you’re moving forward. You’re not lost—you’re levelling up. 2. You’re Outgrowing People and Situations Ever notice how some conversations feel forced now? How certain friendships, jobs, or environments that once felt right suddenly feel heavy? That’s growth. Not everything (or everyone) is meant to come with you into your next chapter. Some relationships expire once they’ve served their purpose. Some spaces lose their magic because you’ve evolved beyond them. Let go. Make room. What’s meant for you will rise to meet you. 3. You Keep Facing Challenges—Because You’re Being Prepared It’s easy to think life is against you when obstacles keep piling up. But what if those challenges aren’t stopping you—they’re shaping you? What if every setback is rerouting you toward something better? What if every test is training you for your next level? Adversity is the fire that forges resilience. You may not see the purpose now, but one day, you’ll look back and realize every challenge was equipping you for something greater. 4. You Have Moments of Doubt—But You Keep Moving Forward Even the most successful people feel like they’re making it up as they go. The difference? They move forward anyway. Doubt isn’t the opposite of success. Doubt is a sign that you care. And every time you push through uncertainty, you’re building resilience. Confidence doesn’t come from knowing every step in advance. It comes from trusting yourself to figure it out along the way. And guess what? You haven’t given up yet. That alone means you’re exactly where you need to be. 5. You Feel a Deep Inner Knowing That You’re Meant for More Even on your worst days, you know settling isn’t an option.You may not see the full picture yet, but deep down, you feel it:
You Are Not Behind—You Are Becoming If you see yourself in any of these signs, let this be your reminder: You are not failing. You are not lost. You are evolving. Your next chapter is closer than you think. Growth doesn’t always feel like growth. But when you look back on this moment, you’ll realise you weren’t stuck—you were in the middle of your breakthrough. If you feel like something is energetically blocking you from moving forward, it might be time to clear it. Book an Intuitive consultation and release what’s been weighing you down.  Ever met someone who felt too familiar? Like you’ve known them forever—even though you’ve just met?
Or maybe you've had a relationship that was so intense, so life-altering, that it forced you to change? These aren’t coincidences. They’re soul contracts. Before you were born, you made agreements—binding spiritual contracts—with certain souls to help you evolve. Some are here to love you, others to challenge you, and a few will completely turn your world upside down. And here’s the truth: Not every soul contract is meant to be easy. Some are here to shake you awake. To push you into growth. To make sure you don’t stay small. But how do you know if someone is part of your soul contract? Let’s break it down. What Is a Soul Contract? A soul contract is a pre-birth agreement between souls. It maps out key relationships, experiences, and challenges you’ll encounter in this lifetime. You don’t remember signing this contract, but your soul does. Before entering this life, you worked with your guides, guardian angels, and higher self to design a blueprint for your journey. You chose certain people to help you learn, grow, and resolve unfinished energy from past lives. Some contracts are here to guide you. Some are here to test you. And some will feel like a battle between fate and free will. But every one of them serves a purpose. For Example… When I started doing psychic readings 20 years ago, I discovered that many people experienced similar past lives with current and past lovers. Chuck and I have lived many past lives intertwined with patriarchy, especially in Scotland. One theme kept repeating--power struggles over my intuitive and healing abilities. Lifetime after lifetime, I felt powerless, unable to stand fully in my gifts. In this life, that cycle resurfaced. When I finally stood up for myself, it nearly cost me my marriage. But in doing so, I healed the wound, broke the pattern, and completed that soul contract. The lesson is learned, the energy is resolved, and in future lifetimes, this chapter is likely closed. Types of Soul Contracts Not all soul contracts look the same. Some relationships are meant to support you, while others are here to challenge and transform you. 1. Light Contracts (Love & Support) These are the souls who bring you joy, healing, and unconditional love. They include:
2. Dark Contracts (Growth Through Struggle) Not every soul contract is pleasant. Some bring pain, betrayal, or heartbreak—but they serve a higher purpose. These can include:
3. Neutral Contracts (Crossroads & Choices) These are relationships where free will plays a huge role. They’re not set in stone but exist to present opportunities. For example:
10 Signs Someone Is Part of Your Soul Contract Not every connection in your life is a soul contract. Some people enter and exit without a deep spiritual purpose. But if you recognise these signs, you’re likely dealing with a soul contract: 1. Instant & Intense Connection You meet someone and immediately feel something powerful—whether it’s love, familiarity, or even discomfort. This is your soul recognising them before your mind does. 2. Repeating Patterns You keep attracting the same type of person or situation over and over again. That’s a sign of a karmic cycle trying to teach you something. 3. Strong Emotional Reactions They trigger something deep in you. They stir emotions—positive or negative—that feel disproportionate to the situation. That’s because your soul remembers them, even if your conscious mind doesn’t. 4. Divine Timing You bump into them repeatedly. You meet at exactly the right (or wrong) moment. Things align in ways that feel almost too perfect. This isn’t chance. It’s the contract unfolding. 5. A Sense of Destiny You know this person is meant to be in your life. Even if the relationship is painful or complicated, it feels important. 6. They Teach You a Critical Lesson Some soul contracts exist solely to help you learn something vital. These lessons often revolve around:
7. An Unbreakable Bond No matter how much time passes, or how far apart you are, the connection remains. Even if you cut ties, the impact lingers. 8. They Push You Out of Your Comfort Zone They challenge you in ways no one else does. They force you to grow, even when it’s really, really uncomfortable. 9. They Feel Familiar, Even If You Just Met The first time you meet them, it’s like you’ve known them forever. That’s because you have—just in a past life. 10. A Gut Feeling You Can’t Ignore Deep down, you know they’re part of something bigger. Trust that. Can a Soul Contract Be Changed? This is where free will comes in. You can’t just erase or rewrite a soul contract on a whim. These agreements remain intact, carrying through lifetimes—layering with old vows, beliefs, and unresolved energy. They grow stronger until you acknowledge them and do the work to clear them. Think of it as an unbreakable agreement with the Universe—one that never expires. (Imagine carrying the same patterns for hundreds, maybe even thousands, of years) But here’s the truth: your contract is a guide, not a prison. You may not be able to change the contract itself, but you can change how you respond to it. Here’s how:
A soul contract doesn’t control you. But if you’re repeating the same patterns, it’s time to break free. The choice is yours. Your soul contracts are shaping your life right now. Some are helping you heal. Some are making you stronger. And some are here to challenge everything you thought you knew. But every single one is pushing you toward the person you are meant to become. Uncover the truth behind your deepest connections. And more importantly—are you recognising the lessons your soul came here to master? Understanding these connections can shift everything. That’s why I offer Past Life Exploration—to help you uncover the shared soul contracts, past life bonds, and unresolved lessons still shaping your relationships today. When you see the patterns, you can finally break free. With appreciation and light, Merry P.S. If this post resonated with you, let me know—I’d love to create more content that supports your journey. And if you know someone who could benefit from this, feel free to share it with them.  You meet someone new, and things seem to be going well.
You’re drawn in by their charm, their attention, and that spark you’ve been craving. But then, something shifts. They start saying things that make you question your worth, or they subtly undermine your confidence. Suddenly, you find yourself in a relationship where you’re second-guessing everything and walking on eggshells. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. It’s a common experience for many, especially those who fall into the trap of harmful dating tactics—strategies designed to control and manipulate. Today, we’re pulling back the curtain on these tactics so you can recognise, protect yourself, and step back into your power. What These Tactics Look Like Harmful dating tactics often start subtly. These behaviours can include:
Why It’s So Harmful These tactics are not just emotionally draining; they can cause serious psychological harm. Research has shown that emotional manipulation in relationships can lead to increased anxiety, depression, and a decline in self-worth. Over time, you may start to believe the negative things they say about you, and it becomes a vicious cycle where their control over you grows stronger. I’ve been there before. I was once in a relationship where the person made me feel like I was the problem. They used gaslighting and negging so subtly that I didn’t even realize what was happening. It wasn’t until I stepped back and worked on my energy that I saw how I was being manipulated. That realisation was the game-changer. I knew I needed to take back my power and stop letting someone else dictate my worth. How to Spot the Signs Early So, how do you know when someone is using these tactics?
Protecting Yourself: How to Take Back Your Power
When to Seek Help If you find yourself caught in a web of these harmful tactics and are unsure how to break free, this is where an intuitive intelligence consultation comes in. It can provide behind-the-scenes intel, guidance tailored to your situation and empower you to attract relationships that truly honour who you are. You deserve a relationship that lifts you up, not one that tears you down. The choice is yours—take back your power today. With love and empowerment, Merry Is Someone Secretly Controlling You? Here are 5 Tactics Manipulators Use in Everyday Life.9/11/2024  Have you ever felt like someone was controlling your life without you realising it?
Maybe it’s your partner, your boss, or even a lawyer during your divorce. You feel confused, anxious, and powerless. It’s not in your head. You’re not imagining it. You’re being manipulated. And it’s happening through Reptilian Theory—a tactic that taps into the most primal part of your brain, exploiting your survival instincts and keeping you trapped in a cycle of fear and control. People who use these tactics don’t need to yell or scream. They know exactly how to push your buttons in ways that go straight to your core. They make you feel unsafe, uncertain, and unworthy—all while subtly pulling your strings. And it happens everywhere: relationships, the workplace, even legal battles. Consider this: You’re going through a divorce, already feeling vulnerable and emotionally raw. Divorce lawyers have been using Reptilian Theory for years to manipulate the outcome of cases. How? By playing on the jury’s deepest fears. They don’t just argue with logic—they tap into primal emotions, like fear of loss or financial ruin, to sway decisions. They know that when someone’s survival instincts are triggered, reason and facts don’t matter. Take the OJ Simpson trial as an example. The defense played on racial tension and distrust of authority, swaying the jury not by facts, but by triggering their deepest fears and survival instincts. (I was a Court Reporting student at the time of the trial and verdict) But it doesn’t stop there. Manipulative partners use these same tactics during divorce negotiations. They create fear about your financial future, your children’s well-being, and your ability to live without them. They make you feel dependent, isolated, and powerless. The goal? To make you fold, to make you settle for less, to make you think you need them. You start questioning your own choices. You wonder if maybe they’re right, maybe you aren’t capable of handling it all on your own. That’s the manipulation working. They thrive on your fear, your insecurity, and your chaos. Why do they use these tactics? Because they work. When someone can tap into your reptilian brain—the part of you that’s hardwired for survival—they gain complete control. They manipulate your fear of losing everything, your need for security, and your desire for safety. Once they’ve activated those fears, they can make you do almost anything to avoid disaster. In divorces, bosses keeping you in line, or relationships where you feel stuck, this manipulation is happening all the time. It’s not about love, care, or justice. It’s about control. How It Works in Everyday Life Fear as a Weapon in Relationships In a controlling relationship, your partner keeps you afraid—afraid of being alone, of being financially unstable, or of losing custody of your children. They convince you that without them, you’ll fail. This fear makes you stay, settle, and give in. Scarcity and Urgency in Workplaces Some bosses use Reptilian Theory to keep employees in check. They make you feel like opportunities are scarce, so you’d better take what you can get. They rush you into decisions, making you believe that if you don’t act now, you’ll miss out. That’s why so many people stay in toxic jobs—they’re convinced there’s nothing better out there. Isolation in Divorce Negotiations A manipulative ex will isolate you during a divorce, making you feel like no one else understands, that only they can help you navigate the mess. They’ll alienate you from support systems, ensuring that you’re too emotionally weak to fight back. The more isolated you are, the more power they have. Chaos and Confusion in Legal Battles Lawyers using Reptilian Theory thrive on chaos. They make things complicated so you don’t understand what’s happening. The more overwhelmed you feel, the more you defer to their judgment. You lose your voice in your own case. Guilt and Shame in Everyday Life Whether it’s a partner, family member, or boss, these manipulators make you feel responsible for their happiness or success. They guilt-trip you into doing what they want. You end up prioritising their needs over your own, feeling like you’re always letting them down if you don’t comply. How to Spot It... If you think someone is using these tactics on you, here’s how to recognise the signs:
How to Take Back Control You don’t have to stay stuck in this manipulative cycle. Awareness is the first step to breaking free. Once you recognise these patterns, you can start taking back your power. Here’s How:
Ready to Break Free from Manipulation? If you’re feeling controlled, manipulated, or unsure if someone is using Reptilian tactics on you—whether it’s in your relationship, your job, or your divorce—it’s time to take back control of your life. In an Intuitive Intelligence Consultation, I’ll help you recognise these hidden tactics, clear your energy, and get back in touch with your inner strength. You don’t have to live in fear, chaos, or confusion any longer. Book your session today, and let’s start clearing the path to your freedom. With strength and clarity, Merry  You’ve done all the right things—put in the work, stayed focused, and kept your goals in sight—but somehow, you still feel like you’re running into the same walls. Frustrating, right?
Here’s the truth most people don’t realise: You can be doing everything “right” on the surface, but if your subconscious mind is carrying blocks, those hidden barriers will sabotage your progress every time. And these blocks? They’re sneaky. You don’t consciously see them. They operate behind the scenes, influencing your thoughts, decisions, and ultimately, your life. So, what’s really holding you back isn’t always obvious—it’s what’s buried deep within. But here’s the good news: You can change this. You can influence your subconscious and break through those barriers. What Are Subconscious Blocks? Imagine driving a car with the parking brake on. You’re pushing the gas, but the car isn’t moving like it should. Subconscious blocks are the invisible brake—slowing you down, even when you’re working hard to move forward. These blocks can stem from old beliefs, fears, or even past experiences that are stored deep within your mind. Things you may not even remember can leave an imprint on how you see yourself and what you believe you’re capable of achieving. Steve’s Story: The Power of Subconscious Shifts Steve, a client of mine, was someone who had everything in place to grow his business—great ideas, a solid plan, and the drive to succeed. But every time he took a step forward, he felt like he was pulled ten steps back. During his complimentary Hypnosis Consultation, we went beyond just looking at surface-level challenges. We explored the subconscious patterns that were really driving his actions. Steve had a subconscious belief that he wasn’t worthy of success. Years of internalising criticism had planted this belief deep within him. It didn’t matter how well he prepared or how talented he was—his subconscious was silently sabotaging him. Breaking Free from the Hidden Barriers Once we identified that block, Steve began to understand why he felt so stuck. This hidden belief had been controlling his actions, influencing his decisions, and even holding him back from opportunities that would’ve taken his business to the next level. So, how did we shift it? First, I rebalanced Steve’s energy to clear the emotional and mental blocks that were keeping him stuck. This step was crucial because it allowed him to release the negative energy that had been weighing him down, creating space for clarity and focus. Once his energy was aligned, we began working on his subconscious programming to rewrite the old narrative Steve had been carrying for years. His mind started to embrace a new story—one where success wasn’t just a distant possibility, but an inevitable outcome. The result? Steve felt a weight lifted. The barriers that once felt like walls started to crumble, and he moved forward with newfound clarity and confidence. His business began growing, not just because of external actions, but because his mind was now fully aligned with his goals. How Can You Influence Your Subconscious? If you’re feeling stuck, it might be time to dig deeper. Here’s how you can begin to shift those hidden patterns:
The Shift: Releasing the Chains It’s amazing what happens when your subconscious mind finally gets on board with your goals. Suddenly, the resistance fades. The things that once felt impossible start to feel achievable. And instead of pushing against invisible barriers, you’re flowing toward success with ease. Imagine what your life would look like if those old stories and fears weren’t running the show anymore. What could you accomplish if your mind, body, and spirit were working in harmony? This is the shift waiting for you. Are You Ready to Break Free? If you’re tired of hitting the same walls and want to uncover what’s really holding you back, it’s time to work with the power of your subconscious. Book your complimentary Hypnosis Discovery Consultation with me, and we’ll uncover the hidden blocks, rewire your subconscious, and align your mind with your true potential. Your transformation is within reach—it’s time to claim it. With clarity, empowerment, and freedom, Merry  Let’s be real—life is filled with energy, both positive and negative. Sometimes, it feels like the negativity is creeping into every part of your life. You might sense the heaviness, the tension, and wonder how to protect yourself from it all.
And staying grounded? It can feel like an uphill battle when the energy around you is chaotic and draining. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to absorb that negativity. You aren’t powerless against it. Your energy is yours to protect and nurture. It’s time to stop letting external energy overwhelm you and start using your intuition to guard your inner peace. This is your moment to rise, shield your energy, and stand strong in your power. How Negativity Seeps into Your Energy Field… Let me tell you about Claire. She always knew she was sensitive to the energy of others, but it wasn’t until she entered a high-stress workplace that it truly hit her. Every day felt like an emotional rollercoaster, leaving her drained and exhausted by the time she got home. Her co-workers' negative attitudes, combined with the constant stress of the environment, made it impossible for her to feel at peace. She tried everything—meditations, positive affirmations, even crystals—but nothing seemed to stop the negativity from clinging to her. When Claire came to me, we didn’t just talk about her feeling overwhelmed. We looked deeper. We focused on how her energy field was wide open, how she was unknowingly absorbing all the chaos around her. She wasn’t protecting herself, and that’s why the negativity had such a strong hold on her emotions. We started by addressing her energetic boundaries and cleansing her aura. By learning how to shield her energy and remove the negative residue left behind from her day, Rebecca began to feel lighter, more in control. She finally saw the impact her unguarded energy field was having on her life, and it changed everything. So, what was happening in the present? Claire’s work environment was still the same—high-pressure and full of stress—but she was starting to shift. We focused on strengthening her intuitive defences, teaching her how to protect her energy in real time. Rather than feeling like a victim to the chaotic energy around her, she learned to sense the shifts before they could affect her. She started reading the energy in the room the moment she walked in, setting an internal boundary that no negativity could cross. Here’s what made all the difference: Rebecca’s internal dialogue shifted from, “I need to leave this place” to, “I control this space.” Rebecca wasn’t just reacting anymore. She was anticipating. She was shielding herself, standing strong in her own energy, and no longer allowing the emotions of others to invade her space. Looking ahead, Rebecca had a choice… Would she continue to allow the negativity to drain her? Or would she stand firm, guarding her energy and choosing to stay grounded no matter what was happening around her? We visualised her future—one path where she stayed vulnerable, allowing the external chaos to dictate her emotions, and the other where she actively protected her energy, controlling her own emotional state. The difference was powerful. Rebecca saw that by fortifying her energy, she could move through her days with a sense of peace, no matter what was happening around her. She chose to step into her power. Here’s the key: Rebecca wasn’t running from the negativity. She was standing tall against it. By embracing her intuition and creating energetic boundaries, she transformed her environment—not by changing her surroundings, but by changing how she interacted with them. Instead of dreading each workday, she began entering the office with confidence. She didn’t need to escape anymore because she had the tools to protect her energy. Rebecca wasn’t absorbing the stress and negativity. She was deflecting it. The result? Her coworkers noticed the change in her, too. Her calmness became contagious, and the energy around her began to shift. Rebecca no longer felt drained or powerless—she felt grounded and empowered. The Power to Protect Your Energy Is Yours This isn’t about avoiding negativity or pretending it doesn’t exist. It’s about learning to guard your own energy, standing firm in your power, and deciding how the world affects you. When you master the ability to protect your energy, you’re not just surviving—you’re thriving. You no longer have to be a sponge for others' chaos. You become a force of calm, grounded in your own peace. Ready to Protect Your Energy? You are not meant to absorb the negativity around you. You have the power to guard your energy, strengthen your boundaries, and live from a place of clarity and peace. If you’re ready to stop letting external forces drain you, it’s time to take action. Grab a copy of E-TOX, my essential Energy Detox, Maintenance, and Empath Defense system. This comprehensive energy detox system includes step-by-step videos that show you how to cleanse your energy, maintain strong boundaries, and stay grounded—no matter what life throws at you. Your peace is within reach—let’s create it together. With strength and clarity, Merry |
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